whenever u cant decide. just remember these

"Because you're hoping you're wrong. And every time she does something that tells you she's no good, you ignore it. And every time she comes through and suprises you, she wins you over, and you lose that argument with yourself, that she's not for you" 

-iris simpkins. the holiday, 2006.

u want her. u dont want her. u cant choose. and each time, u lose the argument and logic that u already decide, either consciously or subconsciously. 

this is not the time to think, ur the one she wants or vice versa. personally, its about being there and embrace that feeling. that overwhelming sets of emotions which nobody would say "this is the right/bad thing to do"
"there is always "start over".

make up ur mind. start believing.